Boundaries - Chapter Six

Most people have myths about boundaries. These myths usually come from false teachings but can come from their parents and other places as well. The most common myths are that setting boundaries are not Christianlike because it isn't loving others. This is a myth because setting boundaries for yourself actually makes you more loving. It forces those that had no boundaries to realize that they need them and that they're intruding on others' boundaries because of it. Another common myth is that setting boundaries on others will hurt them, and this is true. People will be hurt by you setting boundaries, but it doesn't harm them.